How To Talk To A Sugar Daddy: Great And Bad Examples

Last updated: March 10, 2022

Arthur Smith

4 minutes read

Sugar daddies know that many women are interested in dating them, so it’s important to show that you’re an interesting and bright girl. In this guide, we tell you how to message your sugar daddy so that he is definitely interested in you. 

What to say in your first message to sugar daddy

The first message should be as neutral and friendly as possible. You still don’t know what kind of man is in front of you, and it is advisable to avoid sharp corners so as not to say too much. Familiarize yourself with these few first-message rules: below you’ll find the first conversation with sugar daddy examples.

• No compliments about age
• No conditions
• Without talking about politics, weapons, and other sensitive topics
• Without arrogance and condescension
• With praise, positivity, and openness

First sugar daddy message examples

Here are some examples of bad and good messages. You can use good examples as the basis for your messages or add them as they are.

Good sugar daddy greeting message examples

Hey John!

How are things going in your business? I also see that you are into tennis. By the way, you have a magnificent toned torso. I could keep you company when you’re in the mood.

I will be glad to see your message. See you.

Hi Alex!

I think this site is exactly what I was looking for. I really like your musical preferences. I can directly imagine how we drink wine together in cozy evenings and listen to music. What desires did you have when you saw my message?

Hello John.

I am happy to meet you on this site. When I opened the questionnaire, I could not believe my eyes. We have so much in common. I also like volleyball, classical music, and hiking. And to be honest, I am delighted with your appearance, and you are the ideal of my man: strong, courageous, and athletic. It seems that we could make a great couple and we will never be bored with each other. Let’s talk?

Hi, George!

I looked at your profile, and it seems that you are a very active and bright man. I also like to be involved, and it seems to me that we could make a great couple. Tell me, how do you imagine the first date?

Bad first conversation with sugar daddy examples

Hey!

You look great for your age, and I think you have such intelligent eyes. Do you think we could be together? I’m interested in a long-term relationship with monthly allowances and gifts… What do you think? (Avoid speaking about age and don’t start a dialog with your relationship expectations that sound almost like a demand.)

Hello.

I liked your profile. I propose to go to my profile and evaluate my photos. You will definitely like it. Then write to me, please, and try to interest me. Kiss. (Quite an arrogant and self-focused message)

Hey!

How are you? How do you spend time on the site? Who are you looking for? I’m interested in long-term relationships. Your photos look good, and you seem to fit the bill. What do you think about this? (Don’t accentuate your preferences at first and don’t highlight the money issue in the first message.)

Hey!

How are you? Waiting for your message in response, if you like me. (Too short message)

Conclusion: how to greet a sugar daddy

Now you know how to write an excellent greeting message for a sugar daddy. To do this, you do not need to try to please or come up with something very original. It is enough to behave naturally and try to notice what no one could see in a man: his soul, hidden preferences, and dreams.

Arthur Smith

Sugar Dating Expert

Arthur Smith has spent over 10 years working as a contributor to both online and offline psychology publications, but sugar dating has always been his special interest.

At SugarDatingReview, Arthur continues doing what he does best: giving valuable advice on how to have an effective and safe sugar dating experience, as well as telling his readers about the most trusted sugar dating websites based on his own expertise.